Failure? Not me.
Failure is not final …. unless you accept it as such.
Do you ever feel like a failure?
There is a difference between a noun and a verb.
I failed (verb) is very different from I am a failure (noun). Sure we all fail, but that does not mean we are a failure.
Failure often entraps us in the snare of loneliness, leaving us feeling like we alone are a failure. A failure complex just gets deeper if this misconception is allowed.
Loneliness often accompanies fear. A failure complex results in a morose feeling, a deep feeling of loneliness. It prompts a feeling of being such a “bummer” we don’t deserve friends. You are not alone. First, the most successful people often fail. Primarily, you are not alone, God knows you and is right there with you in your highs and lows.
An outstanding basketball player went into a failure funk and though being an exceptionally good shooter he slacked off shooting. He was reminded that he had always been a shooter who had previously hit a high percent of his shots.
Therefore, every time he shot and missed he should run down the court rejoicing in that the missed shot increased the likelihood the next one would go in, so keep shooting. He went on to become an All American.
Remember, “…for though the righteous fall seven times, they rise again….” (Proverbs 24: 16)
William Tyndale aspired to translate the Bible into English. The idea was such an affront the established church put a bounty on his head. He persevered and taught himself Hebrew in order to make the translation. Fervently he worked from dawn to dusk until he completed his desire. For him failure was not final.
Sparky aspired to be an artist, but a teacher dashed his hopes. As an awkward kid with a bad complex he barely graduated from high school. He submitted cartoons for inclusion in the high school annual, all of which were rejected. However he, Charles Schultz, and his little friend Charlie Brown went on to become world famous.
When you are down and out lift up your head and shout…
“I’m down and out, BUT
I’m a child of the loving God who lifts me up and helps me out.”
“And He said to me, ‘My grace is sufficient for you, for My strength is made perfect in weakness.’ Therefore most gladly I will rather boast in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me. Therefore I take pleasure in infirmities, in reproaches, in needs, in persecutions, in distresses, for Christ’s sake. For when I am weak, then I am strong.” (II Corinthians 12:9-10)
Our Good Guide and Guardian
God’s perspective and power are detailed by the prophet Isaiah.
“Have you not known? Have you not heard? Has it not been told you from the beginning? Have you not understood from the foundations of the earth? It is He who sits above the circle of the earth, And its inhabitants are like grasshoppers, Who stretches out the heavens like a curtain, And spreads them out like a tent to dwell in. He brings the princes to nothing; He makes the judges of the earth useless. Scarcely shall they be planted, Scarcely shall they be sown, Scarcely shall their stock take root in the earth, When He will also blow on them, And they will wither, And the whirlwind will take them away like stubble.” (Isaiah 40: 21 – 24) Opponents of God are like dust on His balancing scales and are blown away like dust; their gods are silent.
If that is true of nations, it is also the perspective we should have of any problem confronting us. To us it may seem insurmountable, but to God it is no challenging obstacle.
Therefore, I commend to you as your guide and guardian our loving Lord Who is able to deliver you. Our text speaks of God as “The everlasting God.” (Vs. 28) Therefore, He is the outlasting God.
He is spoken of as “The Creator of the ends of the earth.” His reputation as Creator is under assault. Recently, the Smithsonian opened a $20,000,000 exhibit using the latest in laser, holographic art, and other sophisticated technologies to depict the evolution of man. Textbooks present the myth of evolution. Even with this massive attempt to eradicate His reputation as Creator nearly 50% of the American population expresses belief in the Genesis account of God as Creator.
One law of science confirms His omnipotence; that is, that He is all powerful. It is this: The cause is always equal to or greater than the effect.
The cause is God. The effect is the universe. The greatness of our universe is evident. The Cause, our God, though invisible, is seen in His greatness revealed in His handiwork.
“Since the creation of the world His invisible attributes are clearly seen, being understood by the things that are made, even
His eternal power and Godhead….” (Romans 1: 20)
“The heavens declare the glory of God; and the firmament shows His handiwork.” (Psalm 19:1)
He is all knowing and therefore competent to be our guide.
He is all powerful, and therefore capable of being our guardian.
Trust Him as your good guide and guardian.
Traits of a Trustworthy God
Of the God you can look to for guidance it is said, “There is no searching of His understanding.” (Isaiah 40: 28)
Man is wise, He is all-wise. Man proposes and He disposes.
Even if you have a four-wheel drive mind, it can get bogged down contemplating the wisdom of God. The thrill of it is, He is willing to share. He makes this offer: “If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given him.” (James 1:5)
Through Jeremiah the prophet, He appeals to us by leaving His phone number. It is Jeremiah 33:3.
“Call to Me, and I will answer you, and show you great and mighty things, which you do not know.”
Isaiah, having spoken summarily of God’s character, refers to our consternation.
Three sequences of our weakness and His strength and ability are noted.
“The youths shall faint and be weary…” The chronological age referred to by this Hebrew expression would be between 14 and 20. It is intended to describe those in the freshest time of life. It is a time when life is full of joy, when energy abounds, and growth is occurring.
It is a physical illustration of a spiritual principle. Even young, energetic, optimistic, and enthusiastic Christians grow faint and get weary at times.
It is no reflection on today’s youth. It has always been true of persons going through this stage of physical growth; there is no one more depleted than a tired teen. A Christian in the exuberant stage of spiritual growth, can become weary.
“The young men shall utterly fall…”
This term describes a stage of physical development when energy and endurance are combined with skill and discipline. These are persons in the prime of life.
Even Christians who are disciplined and highly motivated will “utterly fall” when dependent on their own ability.
What are we to do when we reach this stage? Are we to sit passively in our listless state? Is it our moment to moan at our own pity party? No, it is a time to let God show up in response to your love and trust.
I was asked, “Do you ever get discouraged and weary?” Sure I do, just like you. However, I don’t tell others when I am because that might discourage you and if you got discouraged, that would discourage me and I don’t need any more discouragement, so I simply wait on the Lord and let Him do what He promised to do.
For “those who wait on the Lord,” He “Shall renew their strength.” (Vs. 31)
Vengeance
“Repay no one evil for evil. Have regard for good things in the sight of all men. If it is possible, as much as depends on you, live peaceably with all men. Beloved, do not avenge yourselves, but rather give place to wrath; for it is written, ‘Vengeance is Mine, I will repay,’ says the Lord.” (Romans 12: 17 – 19)
Have you ever thought, “I am going to get even ….” Translated I am going to be as evil, as bad as ….” Meaning, I am going to take over God’s job for Him who said, “Vengeance is mine.”
God is in a much better position to handle the job than we. He understands better what happened, deserves pay-back, and is better equipped to handle it than we.
God so desires that we not personally exact revenge that He put in both the Old and New Testaments: “Do not take revenge, my dear friends, but leave room for God’s wrath, for it is written: ‘It is mine to avenge; I will repay,’ says the Lord.” (Romans 12:19, Deuteronomy 32:35)
Reputedly a fellow was told by his physician, “Yes indeed, you do have rabies.” Upon hearing this, the patient immediately pulled out a pad and pencil and began to write. Thinking the man was making out his will, the doctor said, “Listen, this doesn’t mean you’re going to die. There is a cure for rabies.” “Oh, I know that,” the man said. “I’m just makin’ a list of all the people I’m gonna bite.” Many folks live by the rule, “don’t get mad, get even.” God tells us, “Vengeance is mine saith the Lord, I will repay.”
Two things will happen when you relinquish the job to Him.
One, it will be handled better than you could do.
Second, you will be spared a heavy load, a real toxic burden.
There is an alternative to vengeance and it is forgiveness, which when applied depends in large part on the heart of the offended. Contrition, repentance, and confession make possible the latter. God knows the heart of the guilty one and which is applicable.
The same is true of our relation with the Lord. Our sins are an offense to the Lord, yet He forgives us. Out of gratitude for Him forgiving us we should forgive others, as the Scripture says: “… be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you.” (Ephesians 4: 32)
Assign all assumed reasons for vengeance to the Lord. “For the Lord is a God of justice; blessed are all those who wait for him.” (Isaiah 30:18, ESV)
Irritation
A little clipping that crossed my desk a long time ago expresses an often overlooked opportunity, “Life on earth would not be worth much if every source of irritation were removed. Yet most of us rebel against the things that irritate us, and cause us heavy loss that ought to be rich gain.
We are told that the oyster is wiser; that when an irritating object, like a bit of sand, gets under the ‘mantle’ of his shell, he simply covers it with the most precious part of his being and makes a pearl out of it. The irritation that it was causing is stopped by encrusting it with the pearly formation. A true pearl is therefore simply a VICTORY over irritation. Every irritation that gets into our lives today is an opportunity for a pearl culture. The more irritations that the devil flings at us, the more pearls are possible. We need only to welcome them and cover them completely with love, that most precious part of us, and the irritation will be smothered out as the pearl comes into being. What a store of pearls we may have, if we will!”
Most of us will probably admit we don’t have as many pearls as we have the potential for. However, if we adopt the philosophy of the pearl we can have more.
In the Yellowstone Park area of America grows an unusual evergreen, the lodgepole pine. Like other pines, its cones must stay on the tree for years. Even when it falls off, they usually do not open. They only open when exposed to extreme heat. Forest fires often destroy great expanses of this beautiful country. At the same time the heat opens the cones of the lodgepole pine. They are most often the first tree to grow back in a fire-ravaged area. The seed of new life was just waiting for the right conditions.
If you are overreacting in rage to minor frustrations, reevaluate your current situation and priorities. Everyone becomes fed up with something, but a spiritually healthy person deals with it.
Irritations are annoying, unpleasant experiences absent from danger, such as a mosquito buzzing around, or even a gnat. Life is a sand trap filled with various daily irritations like: TYPING IN ALL CAPS before you realize it, trying to spread frozen butter on warm bread, new upgrades of familiar operating systems, watching the clerk at the post office count paperclips while the line grows longer, and a dentist who hums in your defenseless face. The list goes on.
Remember we’re all in the waiting business. How we wait on God makes all the difference. Waiting on the Lord and not running before Him is often difficult, but always advantageous. His flight doesn’t always take off on our time.
Therefore “…glory in tribulations, knowing that tribulation produces perseverance; and perseverance, character; and character, hope.” (Romans 5: 3, 4)
Make this, and every day a “pearly day”.