A Time to Laugh – Part Three
“There is a time to laugh” Ecclesiastes 3: 4
“The One enthroned in heaven laughs…” Psalm 2: 4
There was a time when God brought His people out of bondage and back to their homeland. It was a joyous time of which it was said, “When the Lord restored the fortunes of Zion we were like those who dream. Then our mouth was filled with laughter, and our tongue with shouts of joy; then it was said among the nations, ‘The Lord has done great things for them’” (Psalm 126).
Laughter is a verbal elixir. It is a gift of God. It brings rain to our drought-stricken lives.
Dr. W. Herschel Ford made these observations regarding laughter. “The word ‘laugh,’ in its various forms, is given thirty-eight times in the Bible. Sometimes laughter is right and sometimes it’s wrong. Sometimes it is a fool who is laughing. Sometimes it is God Himself.” If God laughed, so should we.
There is a study that shows the average 4-year old child laughs 300 times a day. By contrast, it takes over two months for the average 40-year old to laugh that many times. It is not until we are in our 70s that we start to recover our laughter instincts. This being recognized there are laugh clubs. Members get together and start off making pretending laugh sounds. They keep it up until there is a transformation to real laughter. The components of laughter are there if we will normally release them when appropriate. Go ahead and laugh.
Let me offer you this bit of humor as a potential starter for your laughter reflex.
A Cajun had a large estate with a lake on the back of the property around which he had planted peach and pear trees. One day he got a big bucket and went down to gather some fruit. To his amazement there were some young adult females skinny dipping in the lake. They said, “We aren’t coming out until you leave.” He replied. “That is alright ladies, I am just going to be here for a short time, I just came down to feed the alligators.” Go on and laugh.
When was the last time you knew the grace of a deep laugh?
God’s enemies may plot against his will, “but the Lord laughs at the wicked, for he sees that his day is coming” (Psalm 37:12–13). God laughs at those who set themselves against his will (Psalm 59:8). And when he laughs, he does so for our sake, to communicate to us. He laughs to give off signals — signals that are horrible to His enemies and reassuring for his friends. The most memorable instance is Psalm 2.
May the God of all grace meet you in your sighs and by the gift of grace fill you with fresh laughter. May the encouragement of His promises, the overflow of His joy, and His inexhaustible favor be yours. That is no laughing matter.
A Time to Laugh – Part Two
“To everything there is a season, A time for every purpose under heaven: A time to be born, And a time to die; A time to plant, And a time to pluck what is planted; A time to kill, And a time to heal; A time to break down, And a time to build up; A time to weep, And a time to laugh…” (Ecclesiastes 3: 4).
There is a time to laugh. There is nothing more inappropriate than a miss-timed laugh. Neither is there anything more appropriate than a good laugh. May the following spurious song titles get at least a smile if not a laugh.
I KEEP FORGETTING I FORGOT YOU
IF THE PHONE DON’T RING, BABY, YOU WILL KNOW IT’S ME
HOW CAN I MISS YOU IF YOU WON’T GO AWAY
I’M JUST A BUG ON THE WINDSHIELD OF LIFE
IF YOU LEAVE ME, CAN I COME TOO
THANK GOD AND GREYHOUND SHE’S GONE
YOU DONE TORE MY HEART OUT AND STOMPED THAT SUCKER FLAT
VELCRO ARMS, TEFLON HEART
“Humor is the great thing, the saving thing. The minute it crops up, all our irritations and resentments slip away and a sunny spirit takes their place,” so said American humorist Mark Twain.
If Jesus, “a man of sorrows, and acquainted with grief” (Isaiah 53:3) was anointed with “the oil of gladness”(Hebrews 1:9) should not we express a little gladness in the form of laughter.
Jesus was filled with God’s Spirit, who produces the fruit of joy (Galatians 5:22). May the Spirit enable us to express joy in the form of laughter.
Scottish theologian, Donald Macleod offers this insight on joy as expressed in the form of laughter:
“Much has been made of the fact that Jesus is never said to have smiled or laughed. Linked to the description of the Servant as ‘a man of sorrows and acquainted with grief’ it has furnished a basis for the idea that Jesus’ life was unremittingly joyless and stressful. But this is a serious over-simplification. Apart from all else, a joyless life would have been a sinful life. Would Jesus have been guilty of the anxiety He forbade in others (Mt. 6:25)? Would He have fallen short of Paul’s attainment as one who had learned to be content whatever the circumstances (Phil. 4:11)? Or of the precept to ‘rejoice always’ (Phil. 4:4)? Could He have been filled with the Spirit and yet not have known the Spirit’s joy (Gal. 5:22)? Could He have given rest and relief to others (Mt. 11:28) while remaining depressed and disconsolate himself?”
Such an analysis is reason for us to recognize a lighthearted moment when God enables laughter.
A Time to Laugh – Part One
A little humor never hurt anybody, so try this.
In rummaging through an old file I found this copy of a stock report.
It was a rocky week on this Market. “Helium was up, feathers were down. Paper was stationary. Ticonderoga Pencils lost a few points. Though elevators rose, escalators continued their slow decline. Weights were up in heavy trading. Light switches were off. Mining equipment hit rock bottom. The market for raisins dried up. Pampers remained unchanged. Caterpillar stock inched up a bit. Sun peaked at midday. Birds Eye Peas split. Stanley tools filed for Chapter 11. Scott Tissues touched a new bottom.”
Now back to reality. Solomon, reputedly the wisest man who ever lived, offered this dictum: “A time to weep, and a time to laugh…” (Ecclesiastes 3:4).
There is a time to weep, and that all too often. When appropriate do it. Conversely there is a time to laugh. When appropriate do it.
An indicting question is posed in Chuck Swindoll’s book “Laugh Again:” “When did a healthy, well-exercised sense of humor get sacrificed on the altar of adulthood?”
God loves a good laugh! It’s God who says to us, “a joyful heart is good medicine” (Proverbs 17:22).
To be spiritual you don’t have to abdicate your intelligence, abort your personality, or abandon your sense of humor. After all, it is said, “God laughed….”
He is the happy God (1 Timothy 1:11), the source of all that is healthy and wholesome and purely hilarious. Anyone who would come up with the ideas to create puppies, kittens, llamas, parrots, and proboscis monkeys has a riotous sense of humor.
You can’t read the gospels without knowing Jesus lived with a spirit of joy and humor and warmth in whose presence other people genuinely enjoyed. Humor of the day, satire, and irony overflowed the cusp of the teaching of Jesus. His vision of God’s kingdom effervesces with joy. Spirit guided self-control enables the faithful to enjoy these attributes. Jesus wasn’t a kill-joy and neither are His teachings. His followers should not be either.
Some of the benefits of laughter include: enhancing intake of oxygen-rich air, stimulating heart, lungs, and muscles, increasing endorphins released by the brain, relieving stress, strengthening social bonds, improving heart health, boosting the immune system, relaxing muscles, lowering anxiety, improving mood, and supporting immunity. Those are not laughing matters, they are blessed benefits. Oh, remember “A merry heart does good like a medicine.”
The “man of sorrows” Himself said, “Blessed are you who weep now, for you shall laugh” (Luke 6:21). That is a promise of a happy God (1 Timothy 1:11). Crying is going to go the way of death and someday will be no more (Revelation 21:4). But joy full to overflowing and pleasure pure and rich will never end (Psalm 16:11).
We live mindful there is a time to weep, but don’t forget it is just as expedient to laugh.
Spiritual Metamorphosis
Have you ever visited a lepidopterarium? That is a butterfly house, a conservatory, a facility which is specifically intended for the breeding and display of butterflies. Visiting one is a delightful experience. The life cycle of the butterfly is observable in this lovely setting. It is amazing that a creature as ugly as a pupa can crawl into a simple cocoon and later emerge as a beautiful butterfly. It is a total transformation. A new creature emerges.
An even more amazing transformation is that any one can enter into a relationship with Jesus and emerge as a new creation.
This dynamic change is not cosmetic. It is internal and eternal. It is an inner change that only Jesus can make, but He can make it in anyone.
A classic example is the former basketball phenomenon Pete Maravich. I knew him well and saw his miraculous transformation. He lived the life of an athlete not knowing Jesus and very little about Him. His transformation patterned a pupa, but was far more beautiful. As a result of the change he knew brokenness and grace. Resultantly He loved and lived for the Lord.
Spiritual brokenness is inward – a contrite spirit over our own sinfulness which leads to humility, surrender, and godly repentance. Personal brokenness is an opportunity for restoration, and for us to authentically enjoy our friendship with God.
Pete’s brokenness was so meaningful to him he had John 3: 16 carved in the wood of the front door of his house. He said if anyone came to his house he wanted them to know what kind of a man lived there even if he wasn’t home at the time. Pete experienced a spiritual metamorphism, a change. Because our God is a redemptive God and so contrary to the way we think, He will always take our brokenness and bring new life and beauty from it. He can meet us exactly where we are, extending mercy in our time of need.
Countless characters in the Bible experienced this. Nicodemus illustrates it. Jesus said, “You must be born again.” Legions through the years have enjoyed it.
Nicki Cruse, the leader of a New York City gang the Mau Maus, experienced being born again. When Nicki came to know Jesus as Savior he went back to the gang and explained his experience. Most often if a member of the Mau Maus’ tried to leave they were killed. He walked through the club members unhurt on his way out. He became an evangelist who was used extensively.
The Lord can do the equivalent for anyone who will turn to Him in obedient faith.
In estate planning an Irrevocable Trust is often used, meaning it can not be canceled. That is the kind of commitment Jesus makes to us. So must our commitment be to Him. A butterfly never becomes a pupa again.
The Bourbon Street I Knew
The mask was torn off the face of “The City That Care Forgot,” New Orleans. It was so called in 1910 to assure visitors they would be free from worries while visiting the city. That changed when the face of evil shown as Bourbon Street, scene of raucous bars serving potent cocktails, became the scene of the recent macabre mayhem of maimed victims.
Two quarters constitute most of downtown New Orleans, the French Quarter and the Irish Channel. Formerly persons from one enter the other. For a time I ministered in the Irish Channel.
The French Quarter, also known as the Vieux Carré, is the setting for a 24/7 party. That is the image most people have of not just Bourbon Street, but the quarter itself. That limits the quarter’s image. The book “Frenchman Love Goodchildren” employs as its title the name of three famous New Orleans streets. When the quarter was laid out they wanted to name all of the streets after French nobles. They could not find enough nobles that got along with each other to name parallel streets for them, so they put a street between each named for a saint.
Bourbon Street is more than strip clubs. It features jazz clubs, and Cajun eateries, such as, world renown Galatoire’s. Old-world architecture, century-old restaurants, art galleries, antique shops, fine dining, and typical live music in the quarter create a rare ambience. O. Henry once lived and wrote at 241 Bourbon Street, now known as the Bourbon Cowboy.
Quieter streets are in the French Quarter, with gourmet food, local crafts, and Jackson Square, where street performers entertain in front of soaring St. Louis Cathedral.
My first exposure to Bourbon Street was as a collegian. Our basketball team had played Tulane. The schools being close to each other we traveled there in vans. After the game I was in the van with the coach who drove us down Bourbon. As he drove he said, “I want you boys to be the kind I could put out on the end of Bourbon at Canal Street at dark and pick you up on the other end at Esplanade Street, the Louisiana Creole section, at sun up and you would be the same kind of person as I put out on Canal. Advice well taken.
My next experience was as a seminary student in New Orleans while living in the quarter for a while. One class required students to preach on Bourbon Street. We went in small groups, sang a bit, and preached. You have never been cussed until you have been cussed by a Cajun mama. I was.
Years later I became a pastor in New Orleans. As such I went to Bourbon Street several times at the request of wives to get their husbands.
One morning an older friend and I took a shortcut down Bourbon on our way to go fishing. It was just before sun up. Strippers and other bar girls were just ending their night’s work and were walking down the street. He said, “Look at them. They are all failures.” I ask why he thought of them as such. He said they failed somewhere in a broken marriage, a failed relationship, or at some point in their career, and resorted to this.”
Bourbon will always be scared by the crux of evil perpetuated there. Bright spots in the Quarter are several successful ministries providing light in the darkness.