What It Would Take To Make Your Christmas Merry
What would it take to make yours a Merry Christmas? Stop waiting for it to come to you and ask yourself what it would take to make yours a Merry Christmas.
To start, consider what does it mean to be merry. Synonyms are: cheerful, joyous, happy. Though not a synonym “content” can well be considered a summary of them all. Three components are normally associated with being merry, happy, or content. They are: people, places, and things. To be bereft of any of the three is to have contentment challenged. We often have our contentment challenged by comparisons. We tend to compare ourselves with those who appear to have all three all the time. Reality is, they don’t so don’t disparage if you don’t. Actually there are persons who have found contentment without these components. They are accepting of what they do have and do not bemoan what they don’t have. It is a matter of perspective, that is, how you look at things.
Long before there was a Parton named Dolly there was a “Miss Dolly” in my life. She was a poor elderly lady who lived by herself in a house on stilts with chicken and dog pens beneath it. In early fall my mother sent me over to help Miss Dolly winterize her house by stuffing paper in the cracks of her walls and tacking up cardboard to keep out the cold. Yet, I always enjoyed visiting her because, yes, she was merry all year.
Another such person in my childhood was blind Dr. Biggs. On pleasant summer days I walked through the woods to his house where we sat under the big oaks and he read to me from his braille Bible. He had it; merriment, joy and cheerfulness. He was fulfilled because he was content.
These two lived alone, apart from family and friends. Their places were humble. Their things were few and meager. So they had contentment without the three things associated with it.
Perhaps there are things you can be proactive in changing to make it a Merry Christmas. Assume the accountability for doing what you can to make it a Merry Christmas. Don’t begrudge what you can’t control.
Turn your gaze on others. What can you do to help someone else have a better Christmas? Such a simple thing as a phone call can brighten their day. Make the call timely, short, and positive. In doing so, you will be fulfilled.
What constitutes a Merry Christmas? Gifts all wrapped under the tree do not. What does? Love is foundational. However, the people we depend upon to make it merry are not always available for shared love.
Spend time reflecting on the first Christmas and the initial gift. Again reflect on what it was that made the first Christmas possible. If you think you are not loved or that there is no one with whom to share, love remember God loves you and Christmas proves it, “For God so loved the world He gave His only begotten Son.”
The original gift makes it truly merry. It brought joy to the world. It was a love gift.
Sometimes there is nothing a person can do to make it a Merry Christmas. In that case accept it for what it is and resolve to rely on the one sure thing to make it the best possible. Even if you can’t change circumstances, you can change your concept of what is required to make it a fulfilling and Merry Christmas.
The gift of God’s only Son is His way of saying —- MERRY CHRISTMAS.
God Is Not Bound By Natural Laws
Christmas challenges us to look into a mystery encapsulated in a conundrum and enshrouded in an enigma.
“What is supernatural about Christmas that interests Christians?” The following is an attempt to answer that in part.
First, the major miracle involved a virgin conceiving. Any person who knows anything about natural procuration or biogenesis knows that is physically impossible. That is the nature of a miracle.
Louis Pasteur, the well known French chemist and microbiologist, made this observation regarding the miracles in the Bible.
“Laws of nature are a comfort zone designed for our comfort by God. They are not a straight jacket for Him. He abrogates them as He will.” Meaning God doesn’t impose the laws of nature on Himself. He can change them to benefit His cause.
A summary overview of what that miraculous birth entailed follows.
It was as though the Trumpeters of Eternity took their stance on the turrets of time to herald Jesus’ birth. The angels proclaimed glory to God, and all heaven broke out.
The dark night’s sky formed a canopy for the Light of the World.
While Rome was busy making history — God arrived. The gospel writer Matthew reminded his peers and us that Isaiah the prophet wrote they called His name Emmanuel, which is “God with us.”
While man was trying to make himself god, like Alexander the Great and Herod the Great, God made Himself a man. While the world reeled from portentous gods Mary had a Little Lamb. Jesus was divinity dwelling in a squealing human form.
He was royalty born in a barn.
The “Great I Am” became captive to time.
At His birth the vastness of eternity was squeezed into a moment in time.
He who existed from everlasting-to-everlasting was reduced to living moment-by-moment.
He was as old as His Father and eons older than His mother.
He who in eternity leaned on the breast of His Father on earth nursed at the breast of His mother.
He could not restrain His desire for an eternal relationship with you, therefore He seized the love initiative and came to earth for you.
Now back to the scientific aspect of all this. Consider a weight, a clock, and a ruler. They aren’t always the same.
A one pound object here on earth weighs one pound because of the gravitational pull on it. On the moon that same object weighs three ounces. Could it withstand the heat on the sun it would weigh 28 pounds.
The ruler represents mass. Mass, that is the size and density of an object also varies depending on speed. Driving at 50 miles an hour your car is three ten-millionths of an inch shorter. Traveling at 90% of the speed of light it would be half its length.
Now the mind boggler. The star Sirius is nine light years away. If traveling there and back you could travel at 99.99999% of the speed of light the following would occur. Your friends on earth would be 18 year older and you would be 12 hours older.
I don’t understand all of that, but I accept it. I can’t comprehend all that is involved in the virgin conception by Mary, but I do believe it. It simply means God knows more than all of us combined. Using that love, wisdom, and power Mary brought forth her firstborn son and laid Him in a manger. I have stood in that manger more than fifty times and every time I recount, “Here, right here, the Word became flesh and came and dwelt among us. That makes for a MERRY CHRISTMAS.
A Faith Walk With Immanuel
Christmas is commemorated and celebrated globally. On every continent devotees pause to reflect on the birth heralded by a natal star, the birth of Jesus Christ.
For those not of the Christian faith the following is shared in order to help understand what it is Christians are solemnizing. For Christians it is an opportunity to reflect on a distinction of their faith. This account encapsulates history and faith. It recalls an event and shares a revelation of who Christians conceive Christ to be.
The cast on earth and in heaven was assembled. Let the drama begin. The curtain call was about to be given by Gabriel. It was a sermon, not a song that came from the angels, but it has put a song in the hearts of devotees ever since.
Mary and Joseph, a nonpareil young couple from Nazareth were about to have their faith stretched.
Jesus Christ’s birth defied possibilities and marched just inside the realm of reality.
With a heart full of love with resolve He quietly walked into Time. As with the virgin waiting on earth, His time had come. It was His moment to be born of Mary. The heartbeat of heaven was soon to be heard in an infant’s small chest.
In Eden God produced a motherless woman from the body of a man named Adam. In Bethlehem He produces a fatherless man from the body of a woman named Mary. In Him were combined the greatest of all possibilities. He was the God/man-man/God, as much man as though He were not God, and as much God as though He were not man. He was conceived by and born of a woman, but not begotten by man. Don’t wait until you fully understand that; we can’t even fully understand human beings’ birth.
Christmas is the occasion when Christians celebrate the moment the foreshadowed Prince of Peace stepped on history’s stage with the floodlight of prophecy focused on Him. Immanuel came to be temporarily domiciled in flesh in Bethlehem.
Little wonder that Mary “pondered” these things as it is noted by Dr.
Luke. It means to put together things in light of circumstance.
Great choirs sing of the joy it brought to the world. The peace promised on earth is still possible. The declaration of peace on earth was not a prophecy, but a prescription for individual peace as personalized in Bethlehem’s babe.
The renewed Scrooge in Dickens’ Christmas Carol said, “It is good to be children sometimes, and never better than at Christmas, when the Mighty Founder was a child Himself.”
Let the little girl within you ladies and the little boy who still lives in you, fellows, come out and enjoy Christmas.
As with Mary and Joseph Christmas is a grand time to start a faith walk with Immanuel.
During this season may you make time to reflect on this miracle of love, and how it affects you. Doing so can result in a Merry Christmas.
The Curtain Call of Christmas
Today is the first of 11 Posts related to Christmas, the celebration of the birth of Jesus Christ. For emphasis some material will be repeated in these Posts. May the historical and inspirational material be a blessing to all who read them. First, the background.
The cast on earth and in heaven was assembled. Let the drama begin. The curtain call is about to be given by the angel Gabriel.
Earth’s greatest mystery, the greatest mission, was about to unfold. Imagination is ignited in two realms, heaven and earth.
He who the whole universe could not contain was now to be bound by the walls of a cattle stall. The voice that called worlds into existence was for a time to be reduced to a baby’s cooing. The voice that stirred the deep dark to sprout worlds now cries with the voice of the infant He was to become. He who breathed the breath of life into man, now as a man breathes so slightly as to seemingly have no breath at all. With a heart full of love He with resolve was to enter time. The heartbeat of heaven was soon to be heard in an infant’s chest.
He who in eternity leaned on the breast of His Father is now in time to lean on the breast of His mother. He was as old as His Father and eons older than His mother.
At a time when man was trying to make himself god, God made Himself a man. The creature could not come up to the Creator, so the Creator came down to the creature, humans.
In antiquity there were two stages of Jewish marriage, the Kiddushin and the Huppah. The first was a period of betrothal, also known as espousal. A binding contract was agreed upon and signed. At that point they were considered legally married. However, at this point they did not come together and often never even saw each other for a year. If the male died during this period the woman was referred to as a virgin who was a widow.
At the end of this first phase the actual wedding, which often lasted several days, was conducted, and thereafter the marriage was consummated.
It was during the period of betrothal an angel announced to the virgin Mary she would have a child fulfilling the prophet promise:
“For unto you a Child is born,
Unto you a Son is given.”
The enigmatic couple locked wills and began their faith walk. As the birth neared they complied with a government decree and began their journey from Nazareth that would have taken them along the western bank of the Jordan River and through the Wilderness of Judah to Bethlehem. There Mary gave birth and thus the Word became flesh and came and dwelt among us.
There is a formula applicable to all of life that is especially appropriate for the birth.
“The length of wait multiplied by the depth of anticipation equals the height of joy.”
For good reason heaven burst forth with angelic voices proclaiming the birth. Shepherds left their solitude and ventured into Bethlehem to marvel over the event. Wise men journeyed a great distance to pay homage.
“Long lay the world in sin and error pining till He appeared and the soul felt its worth, a thrill of hope, the weary world rejoices….”
That is what Christmas is all about.
Then There Was Joseph
Of the Bible characters associated with the pending birth of Jesus, Joseph is one of the most ignored participants. He, like Mary, was of the house and lineage of David and lived in Bethlehem. The girl he was betrothed to and scheduled to marry was pregnant, and that was punishable by death. Had it not been for him, like Mary, being visited by an angel and told why she was pregnant he wanted to hide her. Though he believed that still afforded community shame and pain. This identifies him as being possessor of boldness, courage, daring, and strength of character to defy the expectations of his entire community and take Mary as his wife. This required great strength of character.
He even obeyed the angel’s instruction and named the baby, Jesus. Jesus had no earthly father through which to be born of the Davidic line. Joseph gave Him the name “Jesus.” By Joseph, the surrogate father, naming Him Jesus, that was equivalent to adopting Him, thus qualifying Jesus to be considered of the house of David, in keeping with prophecy.
The name “Jesus” means “Yahweh is salvation.” The angel’s interpretation has important Christological implications, the angel unequivocally insisted that Jesus Himself would “save his people from their sins.”
Joseph did some things indicating his character and faith.
He obeyed and was faithful to take Mary as his wife. (Matthew 1:24)
He respected the virginity of Mary until after Jesus’ birth. (Matthew 1:25)
He acted according to Mosaic law and took the infant to the Temple in Jerusalem to be presented to the Lord. (Luke 1:21-27)
He obeyed the order from another angelic messenger and took Mary and Jesus to Egypt to avoid the massacre by Herod. (Matthew 2:13-14)
After the death of Herod, he obeyed the Lord and took Mary and Jesus to Nazareth where Jesus developed in His youth. (Luke 2:39-40)
Jesus, like other children, grew up learning. His knowledge was uncommonly excellent, far more than he could have learned in Nazareth. Joseph, Jesus, guardian, doubtless played a role in this. Joseph is said to have been a carpenter. The word has various meanings. He likely was a stonemason because most work in Sepphoris was with stone, not wood. Here Jesus would have been exposed to commerce and trade. Later in dealing with the Jews in Jerusalem, He used illustrations based on business.
Based on the fact Joseph was not at the wedding in Canna of Galilee, it is commonly assumed that by that time he was dead. At His death Jesus committed Mary to His disciple John further indicating Joseph was dead, ( (John 6:42)
Joseph, the man always in the background, slips out of the story without even a sentence to mark his passing.
The minimization of his role today is characterized by an experience at a plantation in South Georgia often visited by many guests. In a great room there hangs a lovely oil painting of a scene representing the gathering of people and animals normally associated with the birth of Jesus. There is a long standing employee at the home who delights to tell the story identifying various ones. He goes through all the animals and what they might indicate as forthcoming. There is a description of the Wise Men, the shepherds, and the highlight, Mary. Then he concludes by saying, “And there is old Joe, he is just there.”
Often that is our role, just to be there. If we are where God wants us, it is important that we be there.
Such can make for a MERRY CHRISTMAS.