When Troubles Come

We identify our true self by the way we respond to our problems… and we all have them. Think about it.

Before developing the problem consider this ultimate action. Don’t ask, “Why God, why did this happen to wonderful me?”

Instead ask, “How, God, can this make me more like you.” Look for an answer to that. With your hand still on the doorknob of the unknown you can enter it with boldness because of the infinite resources of your faithful God.

Now evaluate which of the following responses most closely typify you?  Are you a:

Ho-hummer, a person who is indifferent to the nature or potential consequence of the issue? Just shrug it off or deal with it later. No big deal!

Hand-wringer, a person who automatically shifts into anxiety mode. There is no situation so small you can’t worry about it. Fret first and frequently.

“Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.”                      

Hum-dinger, a person who approaches the situation resolutely on giving it your best effort, and dealing with it constructively, one who prayerfully and analytically deals with the situation.

“Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding.” (Proverbs 3: 5)            

Whatever challenges hum-dingers face, they focus on the future rather than on the past. Their mind, thoughts and mental images are in the future. 

They focus on the solution rather than on the problem. Solutions are positive, whereas problems are negative.

Hum-dingers believe every situation that comes can enable them to become a better person. “By their fruit you shall know them…” (Matthew 7: 16)

They believe that something good is hidden within each difficulty or challenge. Norman Vincent Peale, a major proponent of positive thinking, once said, “Whenever God wants to give us a gift, he wraps it up in a problem.” 

Therefore, “My brethren, count it all joy when you fall into various trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces patience. But let patience have its perfect work, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking nothing.” (James 1: 2 – 4)

You can change. If identified by either of the first two above classifications, you can become identified as being a newcomer to the third. How do your friends know you? How would you like for them to know you?

Avoid the Tar Pits of Trouble

“Take therefore no thought for the morrow: for the morrow shall take thought for the things of itself. Sufficient unto the day is the evil thereof” is an aphorism which appears in the Sermon on the Mount. (Matthew 6:34)

“The Message Bible” fleshes out the meaning in modern English: “Give your entire attention to what God is doing right now, and don’t get worked up about what may or may not happen tomorrow. God will help you deal with whatever hard things come up when the time comes.”

Simply distilled the expression means – “Don’t pull tomorrow’s clouds over today’s sunshine.”

Worry does not take away tomorrow’s troubles. It simply takes away today’s peace.

Troubles are often the tools by which God fashions us for better things. Therefore, “Trust in him at all times; people, pour out your heart before him: God is a refuge for us.” (Psalm 62:8) Pray for guidance in resolving simple and complex issues. However, if you only pray when you have trouble, you are in trouble.

When toxic things happen you have choices. You can either let them define you, or you can let God use them to refine you.

Let it refine you like an oyster does when irritated. When irritated an oyster makes a pearl out of the intruder by surrounding it with a mantle, making it a beautiful iridescent pearl. 

Troubles are often the tools used by God to fashion us for better things. 

Remember nothing is permanent in this complex world, not even trouble. Be like the person who when asked what was his favorite Bible verse said, “I like the one that says, ‘It came to pass,’ I know it hasn’t come to stay.”

Accept as true and applicable the words of the Psalmist who said, “The righteous cry out, and the Lord hears, And delivers them out of all their troubles. The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, And saves such as have a contrite spirit.” (Psalm 34:17-18)

Claim that as you deal with your troubles. Don’t try to wish away your trouble, deal with it. Clearly analyze it and relate to each aspect.

Satan has tar pits along the way wanting us to think that our problems are unsolvable. When successful he keeps us trapped in a sense of anger, anxiety, worry, stress and a victim mentality. 

God wants to help us resolve our problems. Therefore, you can confidently say:  “…we also glory in tribulations, knowing that tribulation produces perseverance; and perseverance, character; and character, hope. Now hope does not disappoint, because the love of God has been poured out in our hearts by the Holy Spirit who was given to us.” (Romans 5:3-5)

I Hear the Train a Comin’

Living inside each of us is the little boy or girl we were growing up. Memory lets that child still come out and play at times. Fortunately he grew up before social media and lots of tech stuff came along. There were no toys or teams. A child had to learn to entertain himself.

Recently my past little boy came out and played for a short time like he did as a child. Now as then he hung out at the train depot a lot.  Lessons were learned there. One was the empty box cars rumbled along making lots of noise. The loaded cars ran quietly. Even as a child I got the analogy. Empty headed people make the most noise.

Without technology a clever method to send and deliver mail was devised. Not all trains stopped in our little town. Maybe they were down at Petticoat Junction. The man in the mail car threw off a heavy canvas bag with the incoming mail. To send a letter an ingenious device was used. An inverted “L” shaped device has a rope strung in a triangular shape with the mail bag attached. The mail man in the mail car would hang out and hook the triangular rope and thereby pick-up the mail. The messages had to be exchanged. 

There was another more meaningful analogy learned at the depot. We lived near the track. The newest, fastest, and most luxurious of trains, the City of New Orleans” ran through town. Folks came out to see it. Let me set the scene in order to make the parallel easier to comprehend. 

North of town was a duck pond with a train bridge across it. We lived in a big old two story house. My room was upstairs. When the City of New Orleans crossed the duck pond it was still too far away to be seen or heard. However, there must have been a geological fault that caused it, but when the train crossed over the duck pond a rocking chair in my room would vibrate. When the chair vibrated there was just enough time to get to the track and see that modern marvel. We knew about what time the train was coming so we made sure someone was sitting in that rocking chair and could feel the vibration and give us a warning.

Conservative Christians have a message that needs to be gotten out. It is now easier to do than in those creative days. Diligence and consistency are needed to get it out.

Now the City of New Orleans. It provided signs it was coming by virtue of the vibrating chair. There are even more accurate signs of another coming, the second coming of the Lord Jesus Christ. Bible scholars in considering the signs of His coming say all essential signs that are to precede His coming have been fulfilled. There is just enough time to prepare. Live with that expectation and be motivated by it to be and do your best in all things in order to be ready.

Well, that’s all from my little boy self. He must go back in the memory depot.

A line from a Johnny Cash song says it all: “I hear the train a comin’, It’s rolling round the bend….”

Priorities

There are two books with titles propounding worthy concepts.

First, “Make Your Own Bed,” by author Admiral William H. McRaven (U.S. Navy Seal Retired). It was on the #1 New York Times best seller.

The thesis is that if you begin your day doing a responsible thing well you set the tone for the day. Making your own bed is a simple thing, but a significant one. For most folks it is something that needs to be done daily. The author offers encouragement that by starting doing something worthwhile the mood is set for the day. In it he lists ten lessons he learned as a Navy Seal. They are:

        Start your day with a task completed

        You can’t go at it alone

        Only the size of your heart matters

        Life’s not fair—drive on!

        Failure can make you stronger

        You must dare greatly

        Stand up to the bullies

        Rise to the occasion

        Give people hope

        Never, ever quit!

The second book is “Big Rocks First” by Katrina Solomon. The author tells of a project that involves putting water, sand, small rocks, and large rocks in a bucket. If you put the smaller items in first there is little room for the big rocks, whereas if you put in the large rocks first the other items will fit in around and fill the space between the rocks. It is a work on setting priorities. Do the big things first and the lesser ones will fit in.

We came to Georgia long before the book was written. I saw right away the job I had to do had more to do than could be achieved in a day. Therefore I prayed, “Dear Lord, when the day is over there will be things left undone. Help me to prioritize my days so that what is left over is not more important than things done.” It is simply a first things first philosophy.

Next came my lifetime theme text: “…whatever you do, do it heartily, as to the Lord and not to men, knowing that from the Lord you will receive the reward of the inheritance; for you serve the Lord Christ.” (Colossians 3: 23, 24)

The thesis works like this. Do what you do well, and the Lord is pleased, but people don’t like it and criticize you. You don’t get depressed because you didn’t do it for them, you did it for Him.

Suppose you do what you do as to the Lord, and He is pleased. People brag on you, compliment you, and pat you on the back, but you don’t take off on an ego flight. You didn’t do it for them, you did it for Him.

This affords you emotional equilibrium, a balanced life. 

Make your own bed and go put some big rocks in the bucket, as to the Lord.

Torpor

“Torpor” is often a word needing defining. Living illustrations of it abound. Synonyms are inertia, apathy, lethargic indifference, sluggish inactivity. A simpler summary word for it is “laziness.”

Lazy people often seek to dignify it by such statements as: I am not lazy, just in the energy saving mode. I am not unmotivated. I am just highly motivated to do nothing. Lazy is such an ugly word. I prefer to call it selective participation.

Or, whenever I feel the need to exercise, I lie down until it goes away. I’m a multitasking procrastinator. I can put off multiple things at once.

Benjamin Franklin described it saying “…laziness travels so slowly, that poverty soon overtakes him.”       

In reality even ignorance is the child of laziness. A lazy person lacks the initiative to push back the frontier of ignorance. A motivated person will search for an answer any time knowledge is lacking.

The idea of what we are expected to be and do is recorded in the first book of the Bible, “The Lord God took the man and put him in the Garden of Eden to work it and take care of it.” (Genesis 2:15)

We are the contemporary Adam and Even to whom that truth is now applicable. “For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus unto good works, which God hath before ordained that we should walk in them…” (Ephesians 2:10)

Therefore, “Whatever your hand finds to do, do it with all your might…” (Ecclesiastes 9:10)

Life was never intended to be easy, much less to accommodate laziness.

Hard work beats talent when talent fails to work hard.

Philip Stanhope, 4th Earl of Chesterfield, antidote with this bromide, “Know the true value of time; snatch, seize, and enjoy every moment of it. No idleness, no laziness, no procrastination: never put off till tomorrow what you can do today.”

The last phrase of that statement still resonates.

King Solomon used a small insect to illustrate a big principle. He said, “Go to the ant, you sluggard; consider its ways and be wise! It has no commander, no overseer or ruler, yet it stores its provisions in summer and gathers its food at harvest.” (Proverbs 6: 6 – 8) Lessons abound in that elemental axiom.

For starters an ant has no commander driving it to achieve. It is a self-starter. There is no one around to keep watch and demand excellence. It is in its nature to work and be a responsible worker.

An ant is initiatively farsighted. It plans ahead in the summer for the winter by storing up resources. It is wisdom that drives the ant to be creative.

Time is a gift from God. We must constantly be aware that our clock is ticking away and the final day will come when we will run out of time. Hence, let us live our lives purposefully and productively for the Lord. We shall have to give an account to the Lord regarding our conduct of a steward of all He has given us.

We are to live carefully as people who are wise, making the best use of our time, because we are living in dark and evil days. (Ephesians 5:15–16).