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How to Be a Powered-up Dad 6/20/99
Ephesians 6:1-3
JESUS CHRIST had an earthly dad who obviously impacted his life constructively. Joseph is an unsung hero in the family of Jesus and His brothers and sisters.
Two stories regarding Joseph let us see two sides of fatherhood.
It was the day of the final rehearsal for the Christmas pageant when a mother called the teacher to report her child who was to play the role of Joseph was sick and would not be able to be in the play. The teacher knowing it was too late to get a replacement said, “That’s OK we’ll just write Joseph out of the script.” They did and no one noticed.
There are some dads who feel they won’t be missed if they don’t function, but they are.
A major problem in America today isn’t there are too many dad’s with children, but that there are too many children without dads.
A second story regarding Joseph comes from a plantation home near Thomaston in South Georgia. Tours of the home are accompanied by hosts or hostesses. Occasionally the number of tourists requires more than are available. There is an old butler in the home that fills in and perhaps does the best job of all. He always stops before a large painting of the Nativity. Diligently he identifies and explains the role of every figure. There is the unbiblical donkey everyone assumes brought Mary to Bethlehem, the shepherds, and the wise men are even included. He talks about Mary and the infant Jesus and explains their roles. Then he points out Joseph and says, “There is ole Joe, he’s just there.”
In doing so he identifies for us one of the most strategic roles of a dad. He’s just there. Being there is critically important to the role of dad. The absentee father is one of the most detrimental things in American life.
It is a matter of poor spelling. Love as spelled by children is T-I-M-E.
Dads often spell it M-O-N-E-Y!
I saw this misspelling dramatized in a family. The child had been stealing money from his dad. He would get it out of his wallet during the night. If any was left on a dresser he would pick it up. The professional counselor explained it. The dad spent all of his time making money. To the child time equaled money. The parent wasn’t giving the time so the child took the symbol of time, the money.
The saying “time is money” has never been more true. Many people are living a life of time- depravity. Many time-challenged Americans are evidencing a willingness to cut corners to scale down their lives.
Nearly 1/3 of all Americans get by on less than 6 hours of sleep.
An estimated 81% of employed Americans feel the need to simplify their lives and create more time for home and family.
Managing your time is managing your life. Managing your calendar is managing your life.
Keeping up with your child is more important than keeping up with the Joneses. Work for too many dads is their priority, not the family. Our government boasts of creating thousands of new jobs. One dad said, “Yeah, I know they have because I have four of them.”
Consider this: “What does it profit a man if he should gain the whole world and lose his own child?”
We must learn to balance the material wonders of technology with the spiritual demands of our human nature. (John Naisbitt)
Developing into a dad is a delightful challenge. It is delightful but it is challenging in light of where we come from. Differences in males and females is observable at young ages. Watch little girls at play they are talking and sharing. Their sounds are for communicating.
Observe and listen to little boys at play. Their sounds are not for communication. They are simply sounds: crash, boom, smack, yow, ugh. Moving from that level of communication to learning to be expressive to a wife and children is a task.
Failing to do it leads to failure.
For the longest time the children in the family had pleaded for a hamster. They made all the promises regarding care and feeding. Finally, the parents weakened and bought one. With excitement the children named it Danny. Soon the care of Danny became the sole responsibility of mom. Creative mom soon found a new home for Danny and told the children Danny was on the way out. They took it well but one child exclaimed, “He’s been around here a long time and we are going to miss him.”
“Yes,” said mom, “but he is too much work for one person, and since I am that one person, I say Danny goes.”
Another more compassionate child pleaded, “Well, maybe if he wouldn’t eat so much and wouldn’t be so messy, we could keep him.”
Mom was firm. “It’s time to take Danny to his new home,” she insisted. “Go get his cage.”
In one voice and in tears the children exclaimed, “Danny? Oh, no! We thought you said daddy!”
Dad are you so endeared to the family that your departure would be met with more resistance than that of a hamster?
The Bible gives insight into how to function as a dad in a constructive way that is sure to be endearing.
It begins with your love for your wife. “Husbands love your wives as Christ loved the church…” Put her interest first.
Barbara Walters did a story on gender roles in Kuwait several years before the Gulf War, and noticed women customarily walked about ten feet behind their husbands. She returned to Kuwait after the war and noticed the men now walking several yards behind their wives.
Perceiving this to be progress she exclaimed to a wife, “This is marvelous. What enabled women here to achieve this reversal of roles?”
The Kuwaiti woman replied, “Land mines.”
Husbands don’t wait for some upheaval to cause you to consider the welfare of your wife. Above all remember she is still an admirable bit like she was as a little girl. She still wants to use words to communicate.
The Bible identifies three things a dad should do in Ephesians 6:1-3.
I. FIRST, NEGATIVELY [DON’T ROUSE THEM TO IRRITATION]
“Do not provoke your children to wrath…”
How is this done?
1. Saying one thing and doing another.
2. Showing favoritism.
3. Making promises and not keeping them
4. Constantly finding fault.
5. Dishing out harsh criticism.
Let’s turn this negative, “don’t provoke your children to wrath,” into a positive as expressed in Colossians 3:21: “Fathers, do not provoke your children, lest they become discouraged.” Encourage them.
Standing by the pool suddenly a cousin screamed, “Where is Jamie?” Jamie’s dad looked around in horror and there in the bottom of the deep water of the pool on the bottom was Jamie. He rushed to pull the little fellow out screaming and spewing water, crying, “I wanna go home.”
Instinctively the dad held Jamie close as he walked in the pool with himself shaking more than the child. He walked and talked reassuringly until finally, both were more calm. Soon little Jamie, reassured, began to splash around and play in the shallow water.
Jamie’s dad finally settled down but was about to drown in self-pity thinking no good dad lets his child nearly drown. Cousin Lee Ann walked by and said, “You are a terrific dad and I really admire the way you handled that. He will never be afraid of water again.”
Is your child drowning in a different kind of pool? Do you need to encourage your child?
II. NURTURE THEM [GIVE MENTAL AND MORAL TRAINING TO MATURE THEM]
To insure you know what you intend to do to achieve this write yourself a “Mission Statement.” What is your mission? Not having one would be like a CEO without a strategic plan. It will help set priorities and direct decisions.
GET INVOLVED. A statement isn’t enough. There must be a plan of action. If you make your family a priority you will make time for the family. Be attentive to their needs and observant of their emotions. Tune in.
EXPRESS AFFECTION. Released love registers on a child’s emotions. One young adult said, “As a child whenever I said, ‘I love you dad,’ he would always reply, ‘I love you ALL.’” I wanted him to say, “I love you,” and make it personal.
LISTEN TO YOUR CHILD. Pay attention to what is meant by what is said. If a child knows he or she is understood the conversation will continue. If not there is no need to talk.
One little child crawled up in his glassy eyed dad’s lap and said, “Dad, listen to me! You’re not inside your eyes.”
BE A ROLE MODEL. Father power is much more impressive if we change ourselves before we try to change our children.
I am going to make a harsh statement that will apply to some dads. I don’t know to which ones it applies but I know it applies to some. Dads, some of you are hard to love. Do you want to change that? You can by loving on a personal level.
EQUIP YOUR CHILDREN SPIRITUALLY. Establish the discipline of regular home Bible reading and prayer, and public worship. Be prepared to integrate these into teachable moments.
Doing these things can help you become a powered-up dad.
Gayle Erwin wrote his personal testimony of his dad in the book “The Jesus Style.” He tells of his dad’s airplane accident that left him paralyzed and brain damaged. His mom had to become the bread winner and wasn’t at home. Dad was at home but not functioning. The stage was set for family failure. They did not fail. Through good and bad times, they prayed together, shared love and were faithful to God. When their dad died Gayle and his two brothers stood by the casket and publicly make this commitment:
“Our father did not leave a financial empire for us to carry on. Many things that a dad normally does with his sons, ours was unable to do. He was unable to teach us many things that a dad normally teaches. But he did leave us something he had. He left us with a love of God, a love for the Bible, a love for people, and understanding of worship and an inability to hate. We feel that he has left us only those things that last. So we stand here before you as his sons to declare publically that we will follow his God.” What a legacy!
III. ADMONISH THEM [CORRECT AND WARN THEM]
Admonish means to correct if necessary as well as to encourage if opportunity presents itself. Both are vital. To fail to do either is to fail to properly do the other.
What are the values in which you want your child to believe?
Will your children follow your God?
The Night the Curtain Went Up 12/5/99
John 1:1 and 14
JESUS CHRIST is the play. The world is His stage. The drama of scene one occurred in Bethlehem. The purpose is to dramatically reveal the love of God for His universal audience. Simply stated the purpose of what we call Christmas was an expressive effort on behalf of God to demonstrate to you His great love for you. Within that love He offers the way of life, the potential of peace, the release from guilt, the strategy for stability, the hope of happiness and the means for managing your life constructively.
He put a window in the tiny dark dungeon of our ego in which we wallow, letting in light, providing a vista, and offered release from the slavery of our flesh and the fury of our self-will into what one who experienced it, the Apostle Paul, called “the glorious liberty of the children of God” (Romans 8:21).
If you suffer from servitude to the flesh and tyranny of self-will, I have good news for you.
To all lonely souls who seek a hand to hold, even if all others have been withdrawn, the birth of Christ is special – for you.
Parents make it a point to teach your children the true meaning of Christmas. If you don’t have a nativity in your home make such a priority. If you are a parent and get a lovely valuable one be sure to get another with which the children can play. Use the figures to teach the true Christmas story.
A little girl was helping her mother unpack the nativity set and set it up. As each piece was taken out the mother told who or what it was. The child in excitement reached into the box and pulled out Jesus in the little manger and exclaimed, “and here’s the baby Jesus in His car seat.”
Tell the story like it is!
To more fully understand who it is that loves you and how He wants to relate to you, note John 1:1 and 14.
In John 1, verses 2 through 13, form a parenthesis. Verses 1 and 14 tie together. Each is divided into three sections. Each links with another in the other verse.
I. IN THE BEGINNING WAS THE WORD… (VS. 1) AND THE WORD BECAME FLESH (VS. 14)
John chose the Greek word, LOGOS, to help us understand Who was born in Bethlehem. LOGOS is translated “Word”. A word is an expression of ones self, a revelation made, it gives meaning.
This usage is better understood when it is remembered John’s opening passage closely parallels Genesis 1. Each new phase there begins with “and God said.” Each statement was a fuller revelation of God.
To understand the meaning of a word it helps to see how it was used and what it meant at the time of its usage.
Around the time the New Testament was written a philosopher named Philo used the word “Logos” to mean all that is known or knowable about God. Jesus is all that is known and knowable about God.
A word is a concept and an expression of that concept. As the Word Jesus was the very concept of God and by living among us He was the expression of that concept.
In the Orient there is a relatively small church with a high vaulted ceiling. The dimensions are such that to look up and see the magnificent art in the dome depicting the life of Christ one has to strain the neck and look almost straight up. To make it easier for viewers a large circular mirror has been placed on the floor in the center of the rotunda. Visitors can simply walk up to the rail around the mirror and look down into it to see what is above.
That is what God did. We, even by straining, couldn’t see what He was truly like. Therefore, God sent His Son, that we might better see what He is like. In Him we see all that is known or knowable about God.
The use of LOGOS indicates Jesus was the outward revelation of God.
He was the God/man. It is as much of a miracle to see Jesus as God and man as it is to see Mary as virgin and mother.
As man alone, Jesus could not have saved us.
As God alone, He would not save us.
As the incarnate God/man He came to save us.
In Bethlehem God began to spell out the meaning of His nature and love using an alphabet we can understand…
In Him I see all that I should be.
In Him I see all that God is.
“In the beginning…” literally, “Before time began to begin…Jesus was.” We are told there will be a time when time shall be no more. Time was a part of creation.
The Word became flesh. He was in eternity spirit but in time became flesh. To visit the place of His birth in Bethlehem one can pause and realize “Here, right here, the Word became flesh.” That is, to sense God has been in the room. That is where help begins.
I have difficulty comprehending the great God of eternity but I can relate to Him as a baby who became a man who died for me.
She was five, sure of the facts, and recited them with slow solemnity convinced every word was revelation.
She said they were so poor they had only peanut butter and jelly sandwiches to eat and they went a long way from home without getting lost. The lady rode a donkey, the man walked, and the baby was inside the lady. They had to stay in a stable with an ox and an ass (hee-hee) but the Three Rich Men found them because a star lited the roof. Shepherds came and you could pet the sheep but not feed them. Then the baby was borned. And do you know who he was? Her quarter eyes inflated to silver dollars. The baby was God.
And she jumped in the air whirled round, dove into the sofa and buried her head under the cushion which is the only proper response to the Good News of the Incarnation.
II. THE WORD WAS WITH GOD (VS. 1) AND DWELT AMONG US (VS. 14)
There is a literal translation of this portion of Vs. 14 which states: “and came and pitched His tent among us…” or “He tabernacled among us.”
To understand this go again to the Old Testament. The tabernacle in the Old Testament is referred to as “the Tabernacle of witness”, that is, testimony: and “the tabernacle (tent) of the congregation,” that is, “the tabernacle (tent) of meeting.”
The first expression related to the place where God gave testimony. The second refers to the place where God and man met. Thus, Jesus is the place where God and man meet, where God gives testimony.
WITH translates a Greek word signifying equality. Literally, “the word was face to face with God,” or the Word was eye to eye with God, as thought they looked upon each other as equals.
III. THE WORD WAS GOD (VS. 1) FULL OF GRACE AND TRUTH (VS. 14)
In the Greek text “God” is in the emphatic position. Thus, it read “God and was the Word.” In English we would gain the same meaning by saying, “And the Word (Jesus) was God Himself.” WAS once again stresses His eternality. A legitimate question is posed by the statements: “The Word was with God, and the Word was God.” How could He be God and be with God. One, “with”, stresses His position. The other “was” emphasizing His character or essence.
He was God. His essence was God. That was His character. His very being was that of a divine nature.
He was “with” God the Father and God the Holy Spirit positionally.
Full of Grace and Truth.
Grace = gentleness, tenderness, pity, beauty.
Truth = having lips that could pronounce a blessing but also a “woe”. Truth has muscles when acting against tyranny, selfishness, all sin.
In appealing to you to make a public commitment to Christ I want to share with you something of the way He made Himself vulnerable in His commitment to you.
Christ’s coming to earth in infant form meant He was entrusting Himself to the response of two rural teenagers named Mary and Joseph.
That involved Joseph enduring the hot shame of his betrothed being ridiculed for being pregnant out of wedlock. The law required him to put her to death. Love compelled him to believe her story about an angel messenger and the infant being miraculously conceived by the Holy Spirit.
That involved Mary exposing herself to the ridicule and whisper campaigns regarding her changing anatomy. Knowing of her potential execution she faced the hostile crowd. She did so with confidence. The first thing she did was go visit her cousin Elizabeth who was married to the high priest. He was the very one who would command her execution. She was so committed and so confident of God’s protection she walked right into the jaws of potential death to tell her story.
At the time the angel announced to Mary that she was to give birth to the Messiah she sang praise to the Lord which is recorded in Scripture and called the Magnificat. What do you suppose she thought of her militant Magnificat when isolated and insulted in Nazareth? She believed in her soon to be born child so fully no price was to great to be committed to Him publicly.
Jesus submitted Himself to unimaginable ridicule. When the Son of God became a human being He played by the rules, the harsh rules. Folks in small towns like Nazareth did not treat kindly young boys who grew up with questionable parents. From His infancy and lasting all of His life He exposed Himself to ridicule, derision, sarcasm, and mocking in order to rescue us from sin.
Now won’t you, at whatever expense it might be to you, make public your commitment to Him?
There is a series of new books called “personalized books.” You can have yourself written into the story. The Christmas story is a personalized one. You actually make your own ending to the story depending upon your response to Christ. As nativities are often boxed and stored much of the year you can keep Him boxed in between Thanksgiving and New Year in His cradle forever. Or you can let the story develop to include His life, death, resurrection, and second coming. Include in this drama of life your response to Him as your personalized ending to the story.
How Many Contented People Do You Know? 2/7/99
How Many Contented People Do You Know?
Do People Who Know You Know One?
Philippians 4:11-13
(Page 1718 Come Alive Bible)
JESUS CHRIST spoke often of qualities that produce contentment in life. He typified by His very life this desirable quality of contentment.
I. REPRESSION IS A REALITY
“WANT” is the word he used in the King James. It meant “need” or even “destitution” or “privation.” This need is described as being found in every circumstance possible. Paul described it as:
ABASED – ranked below another or to be brought low. Meager existence, humbling circumstances, or even abuse. Do you think it is hard to be content in such circumstances? Consider the other extreme.
ABOUND – to have more than abundance, to overflow. Some think it evil to have POSSESSION, POSITION, OR POWER. Some even suggest such assets should be given up or forsaken. It is much more challenging and demanding to have such, use it properly, and maintain a Christlike spirit than to give it up. In things GRAND and GRIEVOUS, Paul had contentment. These things often come in swift succession and thus further challenge contentment.
That is, those who have much and suddenly lose it are shocked. Those who suddenly obtain great wealth find themselves bewildered over how to control it without it controlling them.
In PROSPERITY and PRIVATION we can be content.
Our Lord may be laying at the door of the Christian community one of the greatest witnessing opportunities of our generation. Few things have caused broader concern and near panic than rumors circulating regarding the Y2K scare.
Attitudinal extremes exist regarding Y2K.
What is it?
I am sick and tired of hearing about it.
It will result in starvation, riots, anarchy, and martial law. It is God’s forthcoming judgement of America.
Can you be content in either case?
Members of the Christian community need at all times to be practical. It is always good to be prepared but never panicky. It is good to have reserves but not hoard. It is always good to have your house in order but not frightened.
Every household at all times should have an orderly file of hard copies of vital documents, such as, birth and marriage certificates, title deeds, bank balance, and inventory of items in a safety deposit box, etc.
Most folks keep a few days supply of food in the house. I say most because I went to the home of a former staff member who was having a party. He had misplaced something and asked me to look in the refrigerator to see if it was there. Upon opening the fridge I was amazed he didn’t know it wasn’t there. There was one item in the fridge —- a can of lighter fluid. Why lighter fluid?
With the approach of Y2K it would not be impractical to have a few extra days food on hand in the event there is a glitch that impacts for a few days.
There was a day when Y2K panic might have had a basis. About two years ago when the public first became aware of it things were far behind and looking gloomy. The concern expressed at that time was appropriate. Most of the panic of today is being fanned by data that is two or more years old. Much has been done to rectify that cause for concern. That extreme concern has motivated action to minimize the inconvenience.
Don’t pull yesterday’s clouds over today’s sun.
II. THE RIGHT RESPONSE
Paul said he had “learned” to be content. Have we? Do we evidence our discontent? Have you noticed a variety of bumper stickers stating, “I’d rather be…”. We evidence that we believe contentment is found in these things and circumstances.
Incidentally, be careful what bumper sticker you use. A car stopped at a traffic light was rear ended. The two drivers got out and a heated argument resulted. One driver said, “I really felt like running into someone today to vent my frustrations, and your bumper sticker has given me the right to crash into your car.”
It read: “If it feels good, do it!”
The “I’d rather be…” bumper stickers indicate a desire to change our status.
There once was a canary and a goldfish who were very good friends. They lived close to each other. One hot summer day as they talked the goldfish heard the canary singing and said, “I wish I lived in such a nice open cage and could sing like you.” The canary said, “I wish I lived in such a nice bowl filled with cool water.” Suddenly, they were transposed – the fish to the cage and the canary to the bowl of water. That which they each thought would bring contentment immediately became life threatening.
There once was a boy who wanted a marble. When he got it he desired a ball. Upon receiving it he wished for a top. He then craved a kite. With none or all, was he content?
There once was an adult who wanted money. Upon getting it there was an immediate desire for a sports car. When it was obtained, a desire for land developed. Next a craving for a house became prominent. With none, came contentment.
Trying to find contentment through external things is like trying to carry water in a sieve. It does not come from externals. Can your thirst be satisfied more from drinking from a silver chalice or a paper cup?
What are the potential reactions to repressive circumstances?
A. BITTERNESS – Martha became bitter toward Mary because she sat the feet of Jesus and learned while she served.
B. DEPRESSION – The Psalmist (102:7) spoke of himself as being like “a sparrow upon the house top.” He felt isolated and depressed because of circumstances.
C. SELFISHNESS – Elijah has a victory over the 450 prophets of Balaal. He became selfish and complained he was the only one serving the Lord. The Lord had 7,000 other faithful servants.
A fourth response is possible. It is —
D. CONTENTMENT – The Greek word translated “content” is AUTARKES. It was a word meaning “to be entirely self-sufficient.”
Our self-sufficiency is to be found only in Christ’s sufficiency. Ancient Greek writers shared secular ways of having it.
One was to eliminate all desires. That is difficult. Contentment doesn’t come from possessing much but from controlling our desires.
A second way the ancients suggested of gaining contentment was to eliminate all emotions. Not a good idea.
For such persons love was rooted out of life and caring forbidden.
They suggested starting with a cup. Break it and say, “I don’t care!” Then move to a more valuable item and destroy it and say, “I don’t care!” Continue this process until you don’t care about anything. Then you are content. Not so. At that stage you are far from content you are indifferent and of all people most miserable. You have nothing of value, nothing for which to care.
It means self-sufficiency or self-sufficing, actually contained. It was a word used to describe a city needing no imports. In this light, contentment is seen to be an internal quality not dependent upon externals. Artificial pride, inordinate ambition, and gluttony rob us of contentment.
Critically some may think contentment robs us of ambition. NO, actually contentment enables us to struggle and achieve with composure. It is not intended to restrict our horizons. It is intended to enable us to live without our boundaries. The scripture speaks of some strong elements which rob us of contentment and gives advice how to respond.
Luke 3:14 – “…be content with your wages.”
I Tim. 6-10 (READ) “having food and raiment…”
Heb. 13:5 – “Be content with such things as ye have…”
Contentment comes from commitment to Christ and letting Him take away the cause of discontentment.
If you do not have Christ, the inward source and resource for contentment, you will never find it in people, places or things. There are only 5 senses, just 24 hours in a day, and 60 minutes in an hour. Sooner or later you will get to the end of your sensory and social pleasure. What then?
Christ knew this and therefore opened to us an entire world of spiritual challenges. It is an unlimited and fulfilling sphere.
NOTE: It has to be learned. Paul said, “I have learned…”
II Cor. 11: 24 – 27 (READ) describes the circumstances in which he learned contentment.
His tutor was the “God of peace.”
III. THE REASON FOR THE RESOURCES
Contentment comes from commitment to Christ and letting Him take away the source of discontentment.
He then develops within us a sense of:
AWARENESS: “I know whom I have believed…”
I recently shared the assurance contained in Hebrews 13:5 which literally means: “I will never, no not ever, no never leave you.” I did it in relating a frightening flight experience.
Incidentally, as we prayed those ninety minutes on our way back to Honolulu I kept my face to the window looking out. By the light of the moon I could see the clouds and watched as they either got higher or we got lower. I was hoping it was because we were lower remembering Christ said, “Low I am with you always…”
Flying is one of the greatest thrills known to humanity, but it comes in a far second to the thrill of landing.
A white knuckled friend said after that, “We are about to go on a long flight and I thought ‘I don’t need to hear about a frightening flight.’” Then she said, “Yes, that is exactly what I need to hear. Even in times of fright we can rejoice in the fact He said, “‘I will never, no not ever, no never leave you.’”
That gives contentment.
CONFIDENCE: “Cast your burden upon the Lord.”
Job records this encouragement: “Acquaint now thyself with Him and be at peace” (Job 22:21).
DILIGENCE: “Be diligent in business” (I Cor. 7:21).
SUBMISSION: “Thy will be done”
“Everywhere and in all things.”
With confidence born out of experience the Psalmist encourages us to “Rest in the Lord and wait patiently on Him, fret not…”
The Scottish people are often heard to say of a person who does not have contentment, “E’s a blooming fret…”
HOW and WHY did he have contentment?
A. He could accept all things (vs. 11),
“I am self-sufficient in Christ’s sufficiency.
“I have learned to make ends meet regardless of what situation I am in.”
“I AM SELF-SUFFICIENT IN CHRIST’S SUFFICIENCY.”
We are independent upon external circumstances because of being dependent on Christ in all circumstances.
B. He could do all things (vs. 13),
“I can do everything God asks me to with the help of Christ.”
I AFFIRM CHRIST, I BELIEVE CHRIST, I CHOOSE CHRIST.
The word translated “content” was used to describe a city needing no imports. With Christ we are all sufficient. We have stored the resource for all circumstances.
C. He had all things (vs. 18), “I have all, and abound.”
Who Needs the Church Anyway? 11/7/99
Ephesians 4:15c-16
JESUS CHRIST is lovingly spoken of as “the head” of the church. Where there is a head there needs to be a body. The most flattering title granted the followers of Christ is “the body of Christ.”
With resolute determination Christ promised to build His church. Being a part of that process is an exciting blessing.
The church is not simply buildings. That is the church house.
The church isn’t merely a series of meetings. Those are church services.
The church is a group of people interacting in the name of Christ to meet one another’s spiritual needs, challenge each other to holy living, and bring influence on society that enhances community life by holding up the standards of morality.
Every week in the U.S. 40% of the adult population attends a house of worship.
There are more ministers in America than there are Ford and Chrysler employees combined.
If religion in America were a business, it would rank number five in the Fortune 500. Its $50 billion income would put it just behind IBM and ahead of GE.
If the volunteer hours rendered through churches were calculated, they would total over $75 billion a year.
However, the real importance of the church isn’t indicated by these facts. The basic nitty and fundamental gritty regarding the importance and impact of the church is found in the loving relations between the Head, Jesus Christ, and the body, His loving followers, and how they interrelate compassionately.
It is expressed in the comfort given in time of grief, the reassurance afforded in times of loss, the support given in hours of extenuating circumstances, the cup of cool water given on a hot day, a warm coat given to protect against the winter’s chill, a shelter on a stormy night, a hot meal, a missionary sent to a spiritually dark corner of the earth, a holy embrace for an exhausted friend, and a warm smile for a wounded colleague.
It is the gospel explained, the truth exposed to an inquiring mind, morality stimulated, and ethics inspired in the market place.
It is souls saved from an eternal hell, families bound together in love, broken lives restored, people stabilized when their dreams are broken, the sick visited, a fallen brother or sister restored, and the prayer circle activated in support of a need. That is the church.
Galatians 6:2 gives insight into a functioning body: “Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you can fulfill the law of Christ.”
IT IS THE JOYFUL SHARING OF OUR COMMON LIFE IN CHRIST.
Let’s play the devil’s advocate for a moment. What would you do if you wanted to stop Christ’s church from achieving that which pleases Him? Here is what I would do:
Under the guise of wanting to popularize Christianity, I would make it a pop church in which:
A. I would make the basis of faith something other than the Word of God. Secular psychology would be a good basic core curriculum for Sunday School classes, pulpits, and seminaries. I would provide a smorgasbord of entertainment instead of teaching people how to apply the Word to daily living.
B. I would move the focus of faith away from Jesus Christ. This fantasy-faith would be based on health, wealth, and prosperity. Thus, I would appeal to the flesh.
C. I would advocate something other than holy living as the result of faith.
D. I would cause every person to have an unpleasant experience at church. I am going to be transparent. I have had a bad experience at church and I am no different from most people. As a matter of fact I have had more than one unhappy experience at church. The first one I remember was as a teenager. Our church was in a revival. The preacher preached over 90 minutes every service. That in itself is a bad experience. Our church had posts along the side. I was sitting with friends in the area behind a post. The preacher was a screamer and had been blazing away for over an hour. As a youth I was trying hard to stay with him. I leaned forward and propped up on my hand. Evidently only half my face was visible to the preacher. My finger slipped over one eye and it was the eye he could see. Assuming I was asleep he pointed at me and said, “A lot of you are going to hell like this kid sitting over here sleeping.”
I didn’t want to go back the next night. As a matter of fact I didn’t ever want to go back to church.
Honestly, I had a bad experience at church.
I felt like the man whose wife was begging him to get up and go to church. He said, “I don’t want to go. People don’t like me. Some don’t even speak to me. They criticize me and say bad things about me. I don’t want to go.” His wife said, “But you’ve got to go, you’re the preacher.”
I am going to be transparent. I have had some bad experiences at church. Let’s be open. If you have ever had a bad experience at church would you lift your hand.
Most people have. We just have to get over it and quit punishing ourselves by staying away. If you have been inactive and you resolve to resume involvement, I guarantee you Satan is going to do everything possible he can to make your return unpleasant. He doesn’t want you involved in church. Anticipate it and recognize it as his plot. Your former unpleasant experience was his work. If your unpleasant experience has caused you to drop out or become less active that means Satan’s strategy is working.
If you resolve to resume involvement the Lord is also going to be at work to encourage and enable you to find the joy of involvement. Trust Him and try it!
Now turn with me to our text in Ephesians 4 and let’s apply it to the process in which our Lord wants you to become involved simply because it will add meaning to your life.
With Christ as the head of the body, let’s evaluate it.
I. UNIFYING “JOINED AND KNIT TOGETHER”
This speaks of the skeleton of the body. The skeleton gives structure to a human body. Likewise, there are certain things that give structure to the church.
Verses 3 and 13 speak of the “unity.” With all of our diversity, unity is a miracle. It is only possible where there is “unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace” (Vs. 3), and “unity of the faith and knowledge of the Son of God” (Vs. 13).
A structure is something on which you build. The church must have unity on certain structural beliefs in order to build.
A. The Virgin birth.
B. The Virtuous life.
C. The Vicarious death.
D. The Vindicating resurrection.
E. The Valedictory ascension.
F. The Victorious return.
Everything the church is and does must be built on those structures.
II. SUPPLYING “BY WHICH EVERY JOINT SUPPLIES” AND “BY WHICH EVERY PART DOES ITS SHARE”
The Greek text speaks of “every joint of supply.” That is, the joints of supply are the bonds that bind the members of the body together, and the channels through which the source of supply of life comes from the Head. This energy joins believers close together and enables their growth.
In reality we don’t attend church because of what we get out of it but because of what we can contribute to it.
When the word contribute or contribution is mentioned, many people think of giving money. That is merely a byproduct of giving of ourselves. If we haven’t given our self to Christ and His body, the church, we sure won’t give our money. If we aren’t giving our money, we might need a spirituality check.
Students of the new tax laws say they are likely to increase giving to charitable causes by $1.6 billion this year. It will be to your tax advantage to give more than ever to your church this year.
The Scripture says where a man’s heart is, there is his treasure. Think about it! Don’t stop there, do something about it.
However, money is only one way of giving. Your regularity in public worship is a form of giving testimony.
In another state I preached a series of services. There was a gracious lady at every service. She was hearing impaired. I like that term better than the old terms “deaf and dumb.” Incidentally, our friends visiting here from Israel recently often used words that were almost right. For instance, they referred to a person who was “deaf and numb.” I thought that sounds like some congregations I have preached to – – – in other places.
Near the end of the week it was explained to me this lady could not hear a word I had said all week. Instantly, the question came to my mind as to why she had attended. An explanation came immediately. I was told she said she always attended public worship even though she could not hear because it was a way in which she could let others know of her faith. She was contributing by being present.
That reminds me of a sign in front of a church: “We hold sit-in demonstrations every Sunday.”
Another I saw speaks of the church’s purpose: “Come in and let us help prepare you for your final exams.”
How can the church demonstrate to the lost world it has the answers to their many bewildering needs? James gives the answer in chapter 2, verse 14: “What does it profit, my brethren, if someone says he has faith but does not have works?” Then he added, “…faith by itself, if it does not have works is dead” (Vs. 17).
He adds a challenge, “Show me your faith without your works…” It can’t be done.
If in New York City, one delightful place to visit is Rockefeller Center in the heart of Manhattan. There is a lovely plaza with a sunken garden. The place is alive with flowers and flags and in winter, skaters. One focal point is a plaque inscribed with the personal creed of John D. Rockefeller, Jr., a Baptist. It might well appear in any church.
“I believe in the supreme worth of the individual and in his right to life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness. I believe that every right implies a responsibility; every opportunity, and obligation; every possession a duty…”
That is a commentary on the clause “every part does its share.”
The spirit of the body should be one of joy, love, and cheer. Christ said, “Be of good cheer, I have overcome the world.”
What part are you supplying to the body of Christ?
The church must be big enough to provide for you and small enough to care about who you are. One role of the church is to tell the lost world God knows you and cares about you.
After World War I the American government brought four bodies of unidentified servicemen to Washington, D.C. Sgt. Edward Younger randomly selected one of the four to be buried where the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier was later built. Inscribed on that tomb are these words: “Here rests in honored glory an American soldier known but to God.”
That grave marker notes a great truth. It indicates we are known to God. That is our message to people apart from the Lord. God doesn’t only know you, He loves you.
III. MULTIPLYING “CAUSES GROWTH OF THE BODY”
Notice in the text, it isn’t until the body is unified and supplied that it is multiplied.
Spiritual and numerical growth are both incorporated in this statement.
The First Century church would have been given little hope by an objective observer. Its leader was executed as a common criminal. The eleven wavering students who had followed Him for three years had only one in their rank with the equivalent of a college degree, Matthew.
At the time of Christ’s death His followers numbered less than 100. The population of the Roman Empire was about 120,000,000. The civil and religious leaders who opposed them imposed sanctions such as executions, imprisonment, and public beatings.
They grew by faithfully proclaiming a simple message of God’s love. At the Feast of Pentecost in Jerusalem, over 3,000 Greek speaking Jewish pilgrims from Mesopotamia, Asia Minor, Greece, and Rome were converted. In one day the church body had become international.
Notice how they multiplied. They started with 120. On the day of Pentecost 3,000 were saved (Acts 2). A few days later 5,000 more came to the Lord (Acts 4). A short time later 20,000 were saved (Acts 6). In one generation they numbered over 100,000 in Jerusalem alone.
They built on the framework, the skeleton. That is the only way we can grow.
IV. EDIFYING “EDIFYING OF ITSELF IN LOVE”
The warm, sweet spirit of a Spirit-filled church is good for you in every sense. It has been demonstrated that isolated and neglected babies don’t grow properly and are more subject to disease. Apart from the loving environment of a caring fellowship, a babe in Christ does not develop properly.
We are to build up each other.
Scientific evidence now exists that proves it is advantageous to have a strong personal faith and express it by regular worship attendance. David B. Lawson, a senior government research advisor in Washington, D.C. and senior research consultant for the National Institute for Health Care Research has done research that demonstrates this.
He reviewed numerous psychiatric journals for empirical evidence to see if the facts show religion has influence on individuals. What the research showed was that religion was highly beneficial in more than 80% of the cases found in psychiatric research. He also said his study shows the exact opposite is taught in schools.
Lawson further found empirical evidence that persons with a strong faith in God who experienced a crisis were much better able to cope with it.
His research found that 19 of 20 studies he researched showed that religion appears to prevent problems. In light of our social ills and mounting costs, this is meaningful.
He also found a clinically significant difference in blood pressure levels between churchgoers and non-goers, with those who have strong faith having lower rates.
Religious faith has dramatic positive influence in lowering post-operative depression.
If you are part of an edifying church body, they will build you up in love and hold you up in prayer.
Those are mere physical side benefits to having a strong personal faith. Come let us help prepare you for your FINAL EXAMS.
Verses 11 and 12 notes our Lord has given certain gifts to build up his church. Some are preacher/teachers. (Apply Granville Sharp’s Rule) A role of the preacher/teacher is to build up the body for the work of ministry.
I want to appeal to you to identify with the only organization that has a supernatural head, Jesus Christ. Ephesians 1: 22, “He put all things under His feet, and gave Him to be head over all things to the church, which is His body…”
Become a functioning part of the body.
Joseph of Arimathea: A Covert Plodder 8/8/99
Luke 23:50-53
Jesus Christ said, “If anyone desires to come after Me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross daily, and follow Me” (Luke 9:23).
In the Biblical era as in every age there has been a legion to do so. Today there are many who march in the ranks of the loyal. In matters of faith as with all disciplines there have been plodders, people who hang in there for the long run. These are people of purpose. They are not necessarily front runners but they are finishers.
To refer to them as plodders is by no means a slur. The term isn’t a synonym for klutz or buffoon. Nor does it means to poke or drag along. It means to consistently pursue with a purpose. I aspire to be a plodded.
Conversely, unfortunately at all times there have been those who are slow learners and reluctant to fully obey Him. Happily some become late bloomers because they do quietly plod along.
Athletic annals are filled with examples of plodders.
One of my favorite announcers who was one of my favorite baseball pitchers is Don Sutton. June 21, 1986, Don became only the thirtieth pitcher to win over 300 games.
He performed few extraordinary feats. Only once did he win more than 20 games. Only once did he lead the league in any category (2.21 ERA, 1980).
He said of himself, “I never considered myself flamboyant or exceptional. But all my life I’ve found a way to get the job done.” Plodders do, they get the job done.
Sutton called himself “A grinder and a mechanic.” America saw six presidents come and go while Don did what a pitcher is suppose to do; he won games. With tunnel-vision he spent twenty-one seasons redefining greatness. He was a plodder. He was reliable.
Follow this plodder. In high school his sports career almost ended when he broke his ankle. His mom wanted him to quit football because he was too small. Slowed by the break the coach moved him to quarterback. When he finished high school he wanted to go to Notre Dame. However, the Irish were reluctant to gamble on a six foot, 138 pound quarterback. The University of Louisville took a chance. His college career blossomed enough that the Pittsburgh Steelers took a chance and drafted him as their 9th pick. They cut him right away. The Cleveland Browns promised him “next year” but he never heard from them. A year later the Baltimore Colts did take a chance on him. In the fourth game of the year with the Colts leading the Browns 20 – 14 their quarterback broke his leg. The aspiring young quarterback went in and threw his first pass for a touchdown as the opposing safety intercepted and ran it back. On the first play after the kick off he fumbled and the Browns covered it for a touchdown.
He lost 58 – 27.
He was a plodder. He being, Johnny Unitus, who when inducted in the NFL Hall of Fame was called “the greatest quarterback to ever play the game.” Unitus, called “the golden arm,” holds the record for the most consecutive games in which a TD pass was thrown. Johnny Unitus, was a plodder, a winner.
Come with me now to the Scripture as we consider the second plodder in our series. The first was Anna who had prayed for the coming of Messiah and at the age of 84 saw the infant in the temple. She was a plodder present at His birth.
Now at His burial we find another plodder, Joseph of Arimathea. He was a rich intellectual plodder who asked Pilate for the lifeless body of Jesus Christ that he might bury it. That was a bold open identity with the man crucified. It was a dramatic departure from his past.
Joseph is described as “being a disciple of Jesus, but secretly” (John 19:38). The reason for being a covert follower is given “fear.”
He was a member of the equivalent of the Supreme Court of that day, the Sanhedrin.
Noted in Luke 23:51 is an important event. He, a disciple of Jesus, was there the night the Sanhedrin, afforded Christ a mock trial, falsely accused and condemned Him to death. However, Luke notes “he had not consented to their counsel and deed.” He was a decenter.
Logically the term secret and disciple don’t go together. A disciple is a learner, one who follows the teaching of another. Against a lifetime of learning one system of religion He had been awakened to the truth taught by Christ. His faith was strong enough at this stage of his development to want to learn and grow. However, old beliefs like old habits are hard to break away from. He had enough faith to want to learn from Christ.
He had enough fear that he was reluctant to be identified with Christ openly. All the time his faith was covert he was learning.
He knew he would be the object of derision, would lose his leadership role, disrupt friendships, and negatively impact his financial fortune if he openly identified with Christ. All of those things still serve as significant centennials used by Satan to keep people from taking a stand for Jesus. We are prone to ask of ourselves: “what will my friends think?,” “will I lose my position?,” and “how will it impact me financially?”
Though those costs must be considered there is one question that must take precedence over them. It is, “what does Jesus Christ want me to do?” It is often said, “Is there a decision that you know it would please Christ for you to make? If so make it without regard for anything or anyone else.”
In the gospel there is a group of people that typify many today: “Nevertheless even among the rulers many believed in Him, but because of the Pharisees they did not confess Him, lest they should be put out of the synagogue; for they loved the praise of men more than the praise of God” (John 12:42, 43).
A person professed faith in Christ and let it be known in a small group. There was no follow-up, no public profession of faith. No evidence of wanting to obey Christ and experience New Testament believers baptism. Upon being asked why not the answer was, “I have prayed about it and God and I decided to keep it a secret.”
In making that statement I am convinced the person was conscientious. However, our thoughts and opinions should be measured against the Biblical norm. Let’s measure that position against God’s standard. The decision to trust Christ as Savior is the most personal decision one will ever make. However, in the Bible this highly personal experience was never private. At this stage of our story Joseph’s faith was still private. You may be at that stage at this point. However, momentarily you are going to know what caused Joseph to overcome all his fears and go public. At that point you should do as he and go public.
Joseph was in process. He was learning.
Luke gives him an admirable identity. He is depicted as being “a good and just man.”
“Good” describes what he was personally internally. His goodness resulted in the second trait, he was “just.” This describes his external conduct in dealing with others.
If good works saved a person this man had a lock on heaven. He was intellectual, as evidenced by being on the Supreme Court, he was described as wealthy, and characterized as good and just. Even those admirable traits don’t save. Reflect on this summary:
“For by grace you have been saved through faith, and that not of yourselves; it is the gift of God, not of works, lest anyone should boast” (Ephesians 2:9).
Anna, in the temple, is depicted as waiting for the kingdom. Joseph was “waiting for the kingdom of God” (Luke 23:52).
That is the quality that kept his faith alive. He lived a life of expectancy. That energizes life. It frees a person to celebrate life.
The waiting is about over. The center of Joseph’s universe is about to change.
In the cartoon “the Wizard of Id” the dwarfish king of Id enters the workshop of Wiz and finding him staring through a telescope asks, “Whacha looking for, Wiz?” The astrologer answers, “The center of the universe.” The little king answers, “Speaking!” That is a powerful statement of self- centeredness.
The self-centered world of Joseph was about to become a Christ centered world. The same reason that effected this change is the one that should change ours. In a moment it will be noted.
After his colleagues condemned Christ He was immediately crucified. His disciples who had followed Christ for three years were without means and unavailable to bury Him. It was common for the corpse of persons crucified to be thrown on a pile of unclaimed corpses.
Enter Joseph. The secret disciple is about to remove his disguise and acknowledge His allegiance to Jesus Christ.
Joseph was a wealthy man who owned a tomb in a garden near Calvary where Christ was crucified. He went to Pilate and asked to be allowed to bury Christ. What a moment that must have been. In that moment the most powerful religious leader of the day looked into the face of this legal leader and saw a new loyalty. Joseph was a secret disciple no longer. What a murmur must have gone through the assembly. Joseph did not care.
Realizing how cowardly he had been at the trial he became bold in asking for the body of Christ. He was indecisive no longer.
Joseph was about to step on the stage of history as a main player in the fulfillment of prophecy. When he placed the body of Christ in his own personal tomb he was fulfilling prophecy. Isaiah (53:9) had prophesied centuries before Messiah would be buried with the rich.
There is a painting by Peter Bruegel entitled “The Blue Cloak.” In it he has combined at least 78 proverbs, maxims, rhymes, and symbols. One shows a woman carrying fire in her right hand and a bucket of water in the left. It represents an old proverb, “she carries fire in one hand and water in the other,” meaning she carries two contradictory opinions.
Jesus put it simply: “You cannot serve two masters.”
The apostle Paul was equally direct: “Be of one mind.”
Now comes the reason the secret disciple was no longer covert but committed openly.
All the time he had been learning from Christ He had been searching the Scripture. Though secret He was searching. Fortified with facts one act completed the transition.
What was it?
The thing that moved Him to acknowledge his faith and openly demonstrate his devotion was the death of Christ. In that he saw the love of Christ for Him. That love took precedence over all else and he could restrain himself no longer. Out of the depth of love he responded publically. That is the highest form of motivation. The love of Christ enables us to overcome our fears and take a stand regardless of the restraints. It moved Joseph from the category of secret disciple to stalwart disciple. He was no longer a covert disciple but a committed disciple.
The plodder went public.
Mark 15:43 reveals that Joseph “boldly” went to Pilate and asked for the body of Christ. The coward became courageous motivated by Christ’s compelling love as demonstrated on the cross.